Ughhh
Why do we keep people around that are non-supportive? WHY!?!? I can't stand the fact that there are people in the world that are dying for you to make mistakes or follow a course that was unexpected just so they can say "told you so." I mean really...get your own life and quit keeping a journal about things that you "told me so" about. What does that really do for a person to say "told you so"? Do they swell with pride, does that give them reassurance that they are capable of making good decisions because they were able to tell me so? Chances are if you decide another course that opposes the told you so...they can say "told you so" probably +30% of the time because there are multiple options in life and there are no guarantee that one or the other will work out.
If you have to be a "told you so" try it with a little more grace... like "sorry, I was hoping that would not happen" or something more supportive like "well, there is always a chance that may have not worked for you, press on sister" F the told you so-ers!!! You suck! You're mean, negative, and arrogant.
If you have to be a "told you so" try it with a little more grace... like "sorry, I was hoping that would not happen" or something more supportive like "well, there is always a chance that may have not worked for you, press on sister" F the told you so-ers!!! You suck! You're mean, negative, and arrogant.
posted by bridget | 11:43 AM
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If you hear "I told you so" then that means you're living, and taking some risks, so good for you. The I told you so'ers don't ever do anything, they are afraid, so they've already lost, next time you hear I told you so, just remember that dammit you took a leap, whether or not you succeeded at least you know you've tried.
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